[Junaid{JAWO}]

I would personally consider chatting on line to be a form of cheating. Not an adulterous affair but the first step towards one. If someone feels the need to seek out female or male companionship outside the marriage by meeting strangers on line then there is a serious indicator of a problem in your relationship. There is something lacking or missing. I think any time you find yourself opening up about your life to someone who is a stranger of the opposite sex then you are taking a step towards something that is probably going to lead you down a road towards an affair. Perhaps not with the person that you are chatting with but it means you are looking for something outside the marriage. Something that you lack in life.Affairs are normally not about the sex. They are about something lacking in your either marriage or your life before marriage. They are about a need that is not being met which is usually emotional. They indicate that you need to communicate with someone because you are unable to communicate with your spouse on some level.Unfortunately, the Internet has made it easier to meet virtual strangers and become acquainted with them. This can be quite hazardous to a relationship and marriage. I think that people need to maintain self control and if there is a problem then you need to turn to your spouse and air it. Seek out counseling and save the marriage.The whole story is not only pointing out the married peoples only but the adults before marriage are having the same attitude towards internet activities.
That is my suggestion. If that means throwing out the computer then do whatever it takes to solve the problem.
share your thoughts
Junaid

 

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Last edited by Junaid{JAWO}; 02-06-2010 at 11:11 PM..

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no its not

 

[AYAZ]

using internet is right or wrong ? same thing like chatting online is cheating or not its all depends how u used both we are on forum here its also form of chatting

 

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it all depndz whom u chat if takn it in wrng semc thn it becomz cheating but i would say online is gud tym pass nthn to gt involed in it

 

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thanks...

 

[M A H i]

Very nice selection of topic Junaid ,

well in my opinion it depends on what you are chatting about and how seriously you are taking it.....if it is just a casual conversation then no, but if it is up close and personal, then yes.

 

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[Shaam]

well nice topic junaid. and its a very common thinking even of those people wo have such relations and do the same think like this.
But it again only a personal thinking. you or me cant make it a general fact.
Well let us consider a chatting place technically and logically.
Do you ever joined a community club in ur real life as ppl think its a virtual life. if yes then you must have ppl there u chat share thought and make friends. What the difference........ You see them in real infront of you. You can grab them hold them touch them feel them ? here its a bit difficult so i think it much safer isnt it ?
secondly do u have ur own ethics ? You mean anybody who chat... dont take it personally
do you have ur own image ?
do u wanna earn ppl respect ?
if yes then it doesnt matter the u r joining an online community or a real one. you must care of your own image .
again
let me comback to ma point. We meet people here
share our thoughts
know their liking disliking etc
sometime get inspired. sometime it converts into good realtionship some time more then a friendship. Ppl often get married from here. what the diff if i like a girl who in ma univeristy or in my office or in my real world is it fine and if i like girl whom i met here on chat its cheating. WHY ?
because i cant see her physically first
it all depends upon how u take it .
if i wanna flirt i will do it in real world . When internet was no common ppl used to flirt n they do now as well . and who dont flirt . never did it here .
Men and women has an attraction naturally . We cant deny it even in real world or here. Girl might think themselves safe here as the other person cant reach them but it gives another point to chat room .
bottom line
ITS NOT CHEATING BUT ITS ONLY HOW U PRESENT URSELF AND ARE U STRONG ENOUGH IN ETHICALLY THAT U CANT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION AND PEOPLE AROUND U.


MAHI...........
SAME ANSWER FOR U................WHAT BEHIND UR MIND IS IMPORTANT ....

 

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Last edited by Shaam; 07-29-2010 at 11:29 PM..

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Wonderful posting i like it.....

 

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[maliksaim]

nice an good posting ...............