[Humaila]

[s_sableo]

ryt ryt aik dam ryt apko apney parents ko batana chahiye na k this is the reason
if the person they r choosing 4 u apko lagta hy k wo acha insan ni hy ap usko understand ni
kar sak rahey then u shud tell but pehley us bandey sey mil to lein dekhein to sahi k jis sey
apka rishta horaha hy wo hy kaisa n if u r already in luv with someone then that is other thing
then apko us person ki pehley sahi pehchan karleni chahiye kahin wo fake to ni hy n apney waldein ko
batana chahiye n zabrdasti not allowed kahin b not allowed ryt

 

[!~*AdOrAbLe*~!]

nice.....

 

[!~*SOoLi]

Behna Pehli Baat Is Main To Koi Shaq Nahi K Jab Aik Age Kay Baad Larka/Larki Opposite Sex Ki Taraf Attract Hona Shuru Hojata Hay.. To Its Better Kay Usi Age Main Us Ki Shaadi Kar Di Jaye.. Takay Wo Doosri Buri Adato'n Mian Na Paray..

Doosri Baat Waldain Zabardasti Nahi Kar Saktay, Shadi Ka Faisla Lainay Ka Poora Haq Bachay Par Hota Hay.. Haan Islam Yey Zaroor Kehta Hay K without parent's Consent Shadi Main Nabarkati Hay.. Agar Kisi Ko Shoq Hay to Nabarkati Wala Kaam Kar Sakta Hay Magar Us Ka Koi Faida Nahi..

Teesri Baat Haanji I agree with you.. Dunya Main Har Jaga Har Kisam Kay Log Hotay hain ..
Yey Sochna Bilkul Ghalat Hay K Pakistan Ya Kisi Muslim Country Main Zyada Relegious Ppl Hain .. Thanks


Regards ..
Salman Gillanee..

 

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nice.....................

 

[ilusion]

Salam to all

and my respects to all who replied for this topic its a nice topic and rather a reality
but this is an expresion by those who are going throw this stage of life youngsters thinking wich is quite natural
but i have a question

if you apply for a job and you have the required acadamic qulalification for it you still cant get it unless you have the required expreiance , this job might be of any nature but its nature could not be more important than your life time agreement

so finding a real match for some one is a job and it requires a great expreince of life
there is no dought that they could make mistakes but still who is more in danger to make a mistake some one who have the qulification but no exprience or some one who have both

dont forget your parrents are more sincear to you than the one who is just showoing the clourfull picture of life the promisses who no one can full fill and no one ever did

aik bat kahto ha ma kabhe kabhe

ke ashiq apne mashoqa ko chand sitare asman se utar ke lane ko to kahta ha par shadi ke bad 12 andy (eggs) ager daily lane pare to wo bhe mushkill lagt ha it a fact


one thing more the statistics show that arranged marrages are more successfull and long lasting than the other version

dont live in an fanticisied world you have the right to say no to somone you dont like this is your right beeing muslim and humen but you also dont have the right to force your opinion on your parents , they have been throw all the stages of life and they know very well the illusions of life
work mutually with them
propose somthing and ask them there opinion about it discuss the + - points
and if you want to say no for there choice give them a reson other than that you like some one coz they might not like your choice
after all your parents have more right on you than the one who is pushing you to disobay your parents

beilive me love for marrage or intimate relation is just an illusion

rahe bat iman ke to

momen israeal me bhe momen ha
or kafir makkah me bhe kafir ha

 

[FarazAli]

JazakAllah

 

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there is nothing like Force Nikah in ISLAM.. a girl can easily say NO to her parents , Islam give this right to woman.. Nikah is only performed when two parties (man+woman) mutualy agrees i.e. (from heart). Even if someone forcefully do the Nikah that Nikah is VOID in Islam