[SALMAN]

Friendship = Transparency
jisko aap personally nahi jaante hain aap usko dost na samjhain..
yeh naadaani hai
Specially Girls should be very much careful about it

aur waise bhi ek kahavat hai " Aadmi jaane basay aur sona jaane kasay"

insaan ko jab aap real life mein easily nahi samajh paate then how can u know someone remotely ?

I m very old chatter of msn rooms, i had a group named "AnjanDost" @msn
there a Girl was in my buddy list, she called me bhai.. she was one of managers in AnjanDost. She was called Nini as nick & Nadia Khalid as name..
after 3yrs.. I was shocked to listen from her fast friend that she was not she.. she was He... his real name was Abid.

but sab aise bhi nahi hain.. ek mera net friend tha from msn Rizwan Anwar.. when I went to Lahore in 2007.. he was my Host.. i went to his house, i met with his parents, bro & sister.. then we were just net friend but now we r real friend.

 

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Last edited by SALMAN; 09-18-2010 at 11:35 PM..

[ღƬαsнι☣Rασ™]

Very Good Salmaan
I Agree With U
Its All Up to U
wo kehtey hein jo beej bow gey wo hi fasal kato gey
to jesa app fake kero gey to app ko bhi fake hi miley ga
and ager app kisi key sath friendship kero or us ko long life kerna chaho
to most depend on truth
to us relation ko app friendship keh sektey ho
otherwizzz down thomb
BR
TashiRao

 

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[RIZZI~ALONE~KING]

AlL ArE NoT TRuE

 

[SALMAN]

Thank You very much @Tashi Rao..
well said it is up to U..

Allah Bada MusabbebulAsbaab hai.. woh hi jaanta hai sab kuchh
aur zahir hai jab hum apne sab kaam Allah ko haazir-naazir jaankar karte hain then dar kis baat ka.. us par humara 101% yaqeen hona chahiye..
bas aap apna raasta sahi rakhen.. baki sab kuchh Allah par chhor dain..
woh aap ka Muhaafiz rahega.. always

 

[M A H i]

Originally Posted by SALMAN

insaan ko jab aap real life mein easily nahi samajh paate then how can u know someone remotely ?

bikul sahi kaha Salaman,
i fully agreed wid ur statement

 

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قطرہ اے شبنم کی طرح اڑ جاینگے گل سے
ایک یاد سی رہ جائے گی گلشن میں ہماری


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M A H ¡

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[M A H i]

Originally Posted by DiE

yaha kisi ko koi hasb e arzo na mila
kisi ko hum na mile or hum ko to na mila

ache dost har jaga hain " find them "
or ache dost agar mil jaeyn to unhen khote nahi
1000 bar rothey wo to 1000 bar manao
bcuz achi cheez bar bar nahi milti

hmmm
shair acha kaha

Dost dhondane sy nahi milte qismat se milty hain :S

achi salam dua to shayd bohat se logo se ho sakti hay but true or close friends max 5 out of 100 Internet ki dunya mien log sincere nazar to bohat aatay hain but utnay hotay nahi jitna woh show kertay hain. Baqi achay log bhi bohat hain but as a true friends in ki percentage bohat kam hay. jee ko jee kehna Friendship nahe hoti friendship ya relation ka wahan pata chalta hay jab koi aap ko ghalt kahay aur aur apke dost ko pata ho k aap ghlat hosakte ho ya nahi phir pata chalta hai koun apka dost hai werna to sabhi ek dosray ki normal care bhi kertay hain etc aur mere nazdeek to yahi same cheez real life mein b hai.

 

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قطرہ اے شبنم کی طرح اڑ جاینگے گل سے
ایک یاد سی رہ جائے گی گلشن میں ہماری


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.`·.¸(¨`·.·´¨) . * .*..*...*
*......`·.¸.·´* (¨`·.·´¨
¸.•♥´¨`♥•.¸¸.•♥´¨`♥•.¸¸.•♥´¨`♥•.¸¸.•♥´¨`♥•.¸¸.•♥ ´¨ `♥•.

M A H ¡

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[SALMAN]

 

[Shaam]

well
kaaf logo ne batein ki
mukhtilf sochein
tajurbat
apne apne khaylaaat
aap sab soch ke atey ho ke dhoka doge ya khao gei ?

hmmmm
mera nahi khayal koi bhi aisa soch ke ata hoga
per phir bhi
wajaaaa
hmmmm

gher me rahtey ho
waldein
behen bhai
aur rishtey daar
soher biwi bachey
ikhtilaaf hota hai ?
chordtey ho ?
naraz hotey ho
kinara karletey ho?
nahi ?
kio ?
kio kei sincerity pe shubha nahi hota
han do different insan hai
soch saktey hain
2 different tareeko sei
chalo wo tou waldein behen bhai aur TRUE relationship hoti hain
waha aisa kio nahi kartey keapni soch chor kar unki tarha sochne lago
nahi karsaktey na
tou yaha bhi nahi karsaktey
han waha naraz hojatey ho
bura lagta hai
2 4 roz moun phoola rahta hai
thats it


per yaha sab log perfectness kio expect kartey ho
samnei wala shaks meri zaat ko samne rakh kar desing nahi huwa
us sei ikghtilaaf hoga
hazaar baar hoga
samjho
jab un rishto ki khuloos ke yaqeen pe qayim rakhtey ho
tou yaha kia msla hai bhaiyo aur behno ?
chalo turn the table
tum waisey karlo jaisey samne wala expect karta hai
hmmmm
comon DOST waqai her koi nahi banta
per dosti kia hamehsa agree karne ka ya
expectation poori karne ka naam hai
kia koi bhi relation shi expectations pe depend karti hai ya khuloos per
sacrifice per
socho kab kis ko chora aur kio
100% answer batadeta hoo ikhtilaaf ki waja sei
tou chor do waldein ko bhen bhaio ko shoher biwi ko sab ko




SALMAM yeah agreed samjhna mushkil hai
per na samjh ane ke base per rishtey tor diye jatey hain
unko jhoota samjhne lagtey hain aap
mei apnei baap ko nahi samjh paya aaj tak
tou wo sacha baap nahi ?


hairat hai

koi samjhey

rishtey khuloos per bantey hain koi sa bhi
behen bhai ka
ma baap ka
shoher biwi ka
dost dost ka

ger khuloss niyat achi hai tou ek ghalt hogi
theik phir khayal rakhta hai banda
ghalt fehmio ka azala karta hai
sunta hai
sunata hai
achey lamho ka hisab rakhta hai
burey waqto ko ignore karta hai
kia aisey hi sab nahi nibhaatey ?


tou yah asoch ke atey ho ke bus
I QUIT ka banner hath me leikei rahooga ?
jaha moqa mila
I QUITTTTTTTTTTTT

comon guys
REMOTE talluq tou bandey aur RAb ka bhi hai
REMOTE talluq tou rooh sei jism ka bhi h ai
REMOTE talluq tou insan ka apne rohani peshwa sei bhi hota hai


samjhne ke lia waqt darkaar hai
ghaltia hoti hain
per I QUIT hmmm : )

koi samjhey zara
khuloos shart hai
perfectness nahi
warna me kudh ko doghla kahooga
ke apni zindagi me merei criterias diff hain
aur yaha different.....


koi samjhey zara

 

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ایک تیرا ہجر جو بالوں میں سفیدی لایا
ایک تیرا عشق جو سینے میں جوان رہتا ہے

And Allah is All Enough For Me (Al-Quran)

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Last edited by Shaam; 09-22-2010 at 03:42 PM..

[SALMAN]

Don't Confuse my Dear Shaam

Topic hai ki Net Friends kya Real Friend ho sakte hain ya nahi

aap ne khud aitraf kiya ki aap apne waalid mohtaram ko samajh nahi sake to kya aap ki unse koi mutual understanding hogi ? ( shayed nahi )
Virasat mein mile Rishton ko aap nibhaate hain halanki koi dil se rishta nahi hota hai phir bhi nibaahna padta hai yeh society ka rule hai.

jab baat Dosti ki aaati hai then baat sirf understanding ki hoti hai zabardasti nibaahne ki nahi hoti hai.. then ab masla hai ki Net & Real Friendship mein kaise parkhain ?
maine is baat ki baabat kaha hai ki jab aap real mein kisi easily read nahi kar paate then remotely kaise kar sakte hain.

NOW CLEAR THE POINT ?

RISHTE 2 TARAH KE HOTE HAIN

1. VIRASAT MEIN MILE RISHTE
2. WOH JO AAP KHUD BANATE HAIN

AUR EK BITTER TRUTH HAI KI BAHOT SE RISHTE SIRF SELFISH MOTIVE KE TAHET BANTE HAIN

 

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Last edited by SALMAN; 09-23-2010 at 02:00 AM..

[Shaam]

Ji bilkul : )

 

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ایک تیرا ہجر جو بالوں میں سفیدی لایا
ایک تیرا عشق جو سینے میں جوان رہتا ہے

And Allah is All Enough For Me (Al-Quran)

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Last edited by Shaam; 09-23-2010 at 02:19 AM..