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Originally Posted by *NRB*

1st of all hum me se jo b mard hazrat yahan mojood hain to un my se kisi ny ab tk khud kushi ni ki...

aur uska saboot yeh he k wo majood hain....

aur agr khud kushi ni ki to mtlb k abhi tk aisa irada b ni he.. hope so...

but.. yeh sochny ki bat baron ki he bachon ki ni.. Q k aisi posision me wo kuch ni sochty.. to baron ko sochna chahy k un ki tarbiat me kea kami baishi he...?

blky i think yeh tarbiat me baishi ka nateeja he na k kami ka...

baish baha piyar,lad,bacha smjh k zid poori krna,bat munh se niklti ni aur poori ho jati he.. sirf is liy k ley k deny waly aford kr sakty hain...
bachy ko kabhi feel hi ni hony dety k kuch cheezain us k liy ni, ya mumkin ni , ya hasool mumkin ni...
parents boht slowly un k zahn me feed kr dety hain k JO HUKUM MERY AAQA..

wo bs waldain ki tarbiat ko follow krty huy yeh bat zahn me bitha lety hain k wo jo mangy usy mil jaiy..

Ab aisy waldain bhugtain... Q k jb itni dheel k bad wo rasi ko aik dum se kheenchny ki koshish krty hain to Rasi Toot jati he...

aap logon ko lgy ga k shaid me sara blame waldain py dal raha hoon, to me sahi kr raha hoon , Q k bachy me yeh shidat aik dum se ni aati , waldain hi piyar k naam py us me built krty hain.. un ladly bachon ki fitrt hi aisi ho jati he..

so waldain ko chahy k agr 10 saal tk bachon ki prwrish angraizon jesi krni hoti he to 11th year me usy paindo bnany ki koshish mt kea krain...yah apny hath se bacha mar dain.. Q k koi b khud kushi ka aik dum faisla ni krta,kitna larta hoga wo andr hi andr , lgta hoga k piyar khatm ho gea us k liy..

so parents aap shoro se hi midle way py chalain , miyana ravi ka rasta ikhtiyar krain.. aap humsaion ko apni imart dikhany k liy her cheez bachy ki jholi me na dalain warna aap ki aapni goud khali ho sakti he..

zindga kuch pa k seekhny ka naam ni , kuch na milna b jeena seekhata he.




yeh sirf aik raiy he meri, mujhy pta he k bachon ko smjhany ka koi faida ni,ghusa me aql ,aur smjh boht door bhag jati he.. buniyad ko bs theek krna chahy, taky bachon me yeh khatrnak ruhjan paida hi na ho.

apki baat sy me agree kerti ho lekin baag okaat unpher parents ke bache pherhy lhekhy hojay to onke bacho ko bhi onki respect kkerni chiye o onki saadgi sy najaiez faida nhi ohtana chiye khudkhushi haram hy pata nhi aj kul ke lerke itny zuzbati kyu horhe hy
ikhlakiyaat aati hona bs ye pata hy jo me soch raha ho vo hi hona chiye very bad aj ki gerentation
kia ap apny ghur walo sy sath sincarity ki thura rhety kia ap apny waldeen ko dhuk to nhi detty kabhi socha nrb bro..

 

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Originally Posted by CaReLeSs

Hmmm Bilkul aajkal aisa ho raha hai or ye Walidain ke he kautahi hai k wo bachay ko pehlay itna laad iaar day daitay hain k wo bigar jaata hai phir baad main pachtawa hoota hai or rahe aaj kal k naujawanon ke baat wo ye hai k koi kisi ke nae sunta sub apnay aap main magan hai .....

ji but aj ki gerentaion pheri lheki hy aqul bhoj rhukti hy phir kyu vo asa kerti hy ha
yo to vo ajki generation ke bache samjhty hy sb sy ziayda koi aqul mand shiyana nhi but ikhlakiyaat jho kernhi gurzti kyu plz kud ko right karo care bro beshuk me ho ya ap
ya koi or or jha asa dhekho to kamosh tamashi mut banoo belke osy convince karoo plz

 

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[*NRB*]

Originally Posted by G.T.

apki baat sy me agree kerti ho lekin baag okaat unpher parents ke bache pherhy lhekhy hojay to onke bacho ko bhi onki respect kkerni chiye o onki saadgi sy najaiez faida nhi ohtana chiye khudkhushi haram hy pata nhi aj kul ke lerke itny zuzbati kyu horhe hy
ikhlakiyaat aati hona bs ye pata hy jo me soch raha ho vo hi hona chiye very bad aj ki gerentation
kia ap apny ghur walo sy sath sincarity ki thura rhety kia ap apny waldeen ko dhuk to nhi detty kabhi socha nrb bro..

belkul parents ki respuct sb per lazim he , mgr yeh jaznba b tarbiat ka hisa hain... aaj k students nokri krny ki parhai krty hain.. aur ghr se b tarbiat ghaib he... parhna likhna seekha mgr adb na seekha to aisi taleem ka kea faida.... aur tarbiat b maan bap ny krni hoti he , bachy jo salook dada dadi k sath dekhain gy wohi maan baap k sath krain gy , aur phir un k sath b hoga..
to sara msla shoro ki tarbiat ka he jb bacha maan baap k control me hota he , buniyad theeki rakhni parti he,, otherwise bhugtna parta he .

 

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Originally Posted by *NRB*

belkul parents ki respuct sb per lazim he , mgr yeh jaznba b tarbiat ka hisa hain... aaj k students nokri krny ki parhai krty hain.. aur ghr se b tarbiat ghaib he... parhna likhna seekha mgr adb na seekha to aisi taleem ka kea faida.... aur tarbiat b maan bap ny krni hoti he , bachy jo salook dada dadi k sath dekhain gy wohi maan baap k sath krain gy , aur phir un k sath b hoga..
to sara msla shoro ki tarbiat ka he jb bacha maan baap k control me hota he , buniyad theeki rakhni parti he,, otherwise bhugtna parta he .

i agree bro ur views ke pheli sirii bacha shi churhe to bakaya kud ba kud zindgi ki bakaya shiriya chur jata hy lekin hur jhuga parents coalified nhi hoty or na hi parents baag ke perwarishshi nhi kerty lekin ager hamare parennts unphur hy lekin hum phuhy lheky hy to bhaya hm kud ko to right kersukty hy zarroari nhi hur jhugy mahool ak sa mily ya ak sa pay baccha jasy panjo ongliya baraber nhi hoti isy thura parents bhi but me finally itna kahoogi parents ko jhoriye ab jb hm me aqul shaoor hy to kud or apni life me aany wale bacho ki prwarish hm ny kerni hy or hm ny hi ak great koom ko creat kerna hy to phely ab hmue sudhurny ki zarroat hy bhaya ager hm aj parent ko dhosh dy to hm to giye phir life sy ager hm pherhy lheky to right way ko kud choose kerloo ye mut dhekho hamare parents ny ager hmhe ye nhi bataya to hm bs moo dhekty rhe nhi hm ny apny molk or apny paida hoony ka maqsud pora kerna hm duniya me yohi nhi aye belke duniya me aany ka ak aim hy hur insaan ka to kyu na hm mil ker dheer saare ache kaam akry or kud ko apni rhoo ko khsuhi sy surshaar kary

 

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[*NRB*]

Originally Posted by G.T.

i agree bro ur views ke pheli sirii bacha shi churhe to bakaya kud ba kud zindgi ki bakaya shiriya chur jata hy lekin hur jhuga parents coalified nhi hoty or na hi parents baag ke perwarishshi nhi kerty lekin ager hamare parennts unphur hy lekin hum phuhy lheky hy to bhaya hm kud ko to right kersukty hy zarroari nhi hur jhugy mahool ak sa mily ya ak sa pay baccha jasy panjo ongliya baraber nhi hoti isy thura parents bhi but me finally itna kahoogi parents ko jhoriye ab jb hm me aqul shaoor hy to kud or apni life me aany wale bacho ki prwarish hm ny kerni hy or hm ny hi ak great koom ko creat kerna hy to phely ab hmue sudhurny ki zarroat hy bhaya ager hm aj parent ko dhosh dy to hm to giye phir life sy ager hm pherhy lheky to right way ko kud choose kerloo ye mut dhekho hamare parents ny ager hmhe ye nhi bataya to hm bs moo dhekty rhe nhi hm ny apny molk or apny paida hoony ka maqsud pora kerna hm duniya me yohi nhi aye belke duniya me aany ka ak aim hy hur insaan ka to kyu na hm mil ker dheer saare ache kaam akry or kud ko apni rhoo ko khsuhi sy surshaar kary

yeh to humari bad naseebi he k hum parents ko na ehl smjhty hain , k wo Qualified ni...
machli k bachy ko terna seekhna ni parta , maan ko digree ni leni parti apny bachy se piyar krny ki...
maan baap hamesha Qualified hooty hain.. ya aap bta dain k MA,MSC,PHD,ENG,MBBS ya MBA me se kon si class me maan baap bnna seekhaty hain..?
What the hell is Qualified..?
maan ko maan hony k liy kisi public school ka certifct chahy..?
mery dada parhy Qualified thy..?
un k dada Qualified thy..?
ajeeb logic he aap ki Qualification ki.maan baap Qualified ni hoty. lo yeh kea bat hui...
aap ny maan bnny ki digree li he..?

aur hum jis TOPIC py bat kr rahy thy us me bachon k aik khas behav pr ghore kr rahy thy , to sirf usy discus krty hain.. Great Qom ka alg se thread lgain gy...
aur jo Topic tha us me Parents ki tarbiat hi mani rakhti he..
aur agr aap ny bachy k janooni behav ka usi py ilzam dalna he , to dfa krain usy , mrny dain , kahin mar khap jaiy ga jaan chot jaiy gi.akhir wo aqal mand , ba shaoor he.. apna bura bhala khud janta he.

 

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Originally Posted by *NRB*

yeh to humari bad naseebi he k hum parents ko na ehl smjhty hain , k wo Qualified ni...
machli k bachy ko terna seekhna ni parta , maan ko digree ni leni parti apny bachy se piyar krny ki...
maan baap hamesha Qualified hooty hain.. ya aap bta dain k MA,MSC,PHD,ENG,MBBS ya MBA me se kon si class me maan baap bnna seekhaty hain..?
What the hell is Qualified..?
maan ko maan hony k liy kisi public school ka certifct chahy..?
mery dada parhy Qualified thy..?
un k dada Qualified thy..?
ajeeb logic he aap ki Qualification ki.maan baap Qualified ni hoty. lo yeh kea bat hui...
aap ny maan bnny ki digree li he..?

aur hum jis TOPIC py bat kr rahy thy us me bachon k aik khas behav pr ghore kr rahy thy , to sirf usy discus krty hain.. Great Qom ka alg se thread lgain gy...
aur jo Topic tha us me Parents ki tarbiat hi mani rakhti he..
aur agr aap ny bachy k janooni behav ka usi py ilzam dalna he , to dfa krain usy , mrny dain , kahin mar khap jaiy ga jaan chot jaiy gi.akhir wo aqal mand , ba shaoor he.. apna bura bhala khud janta he.

nhi bro ap theek khe rhe hy orm e apny hum watunooko mrnyk e liyek asy jhor doo
no never jb tuk hm hy apny essusy ka qurz otaarty ay gy INSHALLAH

 

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Main Apnay Bachay Ko Kabhi Itni Kamzori Nai Banaonga K Mere Samnay Wo Is Tarha K ilfaaz Kahay Aur Main Uski Baat Maan Loon.. Usay Khudkashi Ki Saza Bata Doonga Jo Allah Nay Khudkashi Karnay Walo'n K Liye Muqarar Ki Hay, .. Aur Kahonga Baita Ab Kya Irada Rakhtay Ho? lol

 

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Originally Posted by !~*SOoLi

Main Apnay Bachay Ko Kabhi Itni Kamzori Nai Banaonga K Mere Samnay Wo Is Tarha K ilfaaz Kahay Aur Main Uski Baat Maan Loon.. Usay Khudkashi Ki Saza Bata Doonga Jo Allah Nay Khudkashi Karnay Walo'n K Liye Muqarar Ki Hay, .. Aur Kahonga Baita Ab Kya Irada Rakhtay Ho? lol

zaberdust ye hoi na ache nojawanoo wali baat solli bahi Good
Mojhe ab acha lug rha hy ke abhi bhi koi hy in nojawanoo me jo bigree halat ko mazeed nhi bigaare ga

 

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[singer_zuhaib]

Assalam o Alaikum.

mai olaad ko galat nahe kehta agar olaad galat hai to os mai parents ka boht bara haath hai,warna olaad ki jurat nahe k parents k samne onchi awaaz se baat kare ya dhamki khez lehje mai baat kare.

 

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Originally Posted by singer_zuhaib

Assalam o Alaikum.

mai olaad ko galat nahe kehta agar olaad galat hai to os mai parents ka boht bara haath hai,warna olaad ki jurat nahe k parents k samne onchi awaaz se baat kare ya dhamki khez lehje mai baat kare.

bilkol correct ji achi perwarish ache bachy but aj ke nojawan ko bs emotional nhi hona chiye bs

 

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