Cheating & Relationships.

[Nazuk Ladki]

Hey Meraforum members.


What you guys think of Cheaters.

Why do you think People Cheat ?

Is it Wrong is it Right?

Would you EVER Cheat if you were in a relationship?

What do you Consider Cheating?

&
Anything Else you would like to Add.




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[Pareevash]

i HATE them
u knw i ave got cheated like 1000 tayeeemz well not exactly ceated but ive got hurt 100 tayemz id ont knw watever it iz ... i knw no1 ever meant to hurt me it jus happenez like tht
i havent even met him i dont knw wat i m cryin abt .... i didnt find him yet thtz wat it izzz yaaa....anywayz here i go abt cheatin

any1 can cheat on me itz soo easy for them
to lie & make me feel like sumthin & then tell me with this stupid smile on their faces
HAAA i was jus havin fun nothinof thin w az reall & all of this was jus a piece of ************


at tht moment i jus wish to b a vampire & hurt them like NO 1 has ever done b4 torture them
& then jus throw them & kill them shoot them right in the heart

NO1 has ever actually cheated on me i dont knw why i m sayin all tht itz jus incase if tht happenenz tht iz gonna b my reaction....


Love the thread i wud love to see other ppl views on this topic...!!

[DreamoOo]

LOL , never been in such a discussion at least on forums , but going to give it a try


Cheaterz are same like use but wid one extra talent of cheating :p some of em are really gud at it.
"Love is a game in which one always cheats.” :lol:
Some for fun n some as a part of day to day activities who knows n who carez
For some ppl its rite n for some its rong , da pplz who are cheating it's rite for em dey will give you 1000's of explanation n da one who got cheated wud considered it wrong
I doubt it ... “I would prefer even to fail with honor than to win by cheating” :D
for da ppl who cheat alot its fun for em , but for da victims its a "Good Grief"

[Pareevash]

LOL , never been in such a discussion at least on forums , but going to give it a try
Life iz alot like readin frankestine 4 the first tayeem...!!


"Love is a game in which one always cheats.” :lol:
it doesnt has to b this way...!! cheaterz shd get punished By law in court

Some for fun n some as a part of day to day activities who knows n who carez

My heart iz not aa PS3

I doubt it ... “I would prefer even to fail with honor than to win by cheating” :D

Good quote...!!

[DreamoOo]

Life iz alot like readin frankestine 4 the first tayeem...!!


"Love is a game in which one always cheats.” :lol:
it doesnt has to b this way...!! cheaterz shd get punished By law in court

It has to be this way " Be smart why ur giving em chance for cheating ?

Some for fun n some as a part of day to day activities who knows n who carez

My heart iz not aa PS3
Who sed it is , Why ur letting oders to use it like PS3?

I doubt it ... “I would prefer even to fail with honor than to win by cheating” :D

Good quote...!!


So again we r pplz who give em chance over n over to cheat us.
So I won't blame em 100% because still some credit goes our way :D

[Pareevash]

So again we r pplz who give em chance over n over to cheat us.
So I won't blame em 100% because still some credit goes our way :D

what do u mean it has to beee... if they knw they r gonna end uo in jail for tht it wont b like tht

weel i kinda agree wiith you but we ppl r inncoent like tht
we jus wanna believe in love for once
we want ot to b real

oh n i m not personally lettin any 1 use it like ps3 i am always like tht i guess i was jus born this way..nothing actually happens but i cry abt it

[DreamoOo]

what do u mean it has to beee... if they knw they r gonna end uo in jail for tht it wont b like tht

weel i kinda agree wiith you but we ppl r inncoent like tht
we jus wanna believe in love for once
we want ot to b real

oh n i m not personally lettin any 1 use it like ps3 i am always like tht i guess i was jus born this way..nothing actually happens but i cry abt it

lol I still doubt it , just an example : ppl kno if dey get caught wid Herion or hashish in KSA dey will punish to death but dey still do it :D
lol i guess if we get rid of the romantic movies n dere impression on our lives n minds we will be fair enuff to deal it n it won't lead us to such a situation, but now we r on swing of what comes our way just take it.

I kno ur not but things happen n u have no control over em sum times or most of da times..

[Nazuk Ladki]

Very well Said.

Pari

Tipsy

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Really Liked These Points.


any1 can cheat on me itz soo easy for them



da pplz who are cheating it's rite for em dey will give you 1000's of explanation n da one who got cheated wud considered it wrong



for da ppl who cheat alot its fun for em , but for da victims its a "Good Grief"



Cheating Is That Its NOt GoOd N It ShOUldnt Be DOne



Cheating to me.

I Think People Cheat Because: they feel Neglected .
They want some Attention So they Cheat.
They Don't do it to hurt the other Person, cause if they didn't care they could easily Leave the relationship, but they care a lot.

It is Morally Wrong. But i think Guilt is in its own way a Punishment that Comes wit it.

I consider Cheating : mental Liking another person while you are in a relationship.
because if its sexual. its just for fun but if its mental. Thats some Serious Stuff. thats where all relationships a
go wrong.


I will Share More of My View Later on in the thread.

[Pareevash]

lol I still doubt it , just an example : ppl kno if dey get caught wid Herion or hashish in KSA dey will punish to death but dey still do it :D
still it wont b tht common then

lol i guess if we get rid of the romantic movies n dere impression on our lives n minds we will never ever blame some one for cheating :p

itz not all abt romantic movies & teenage single young ppl there r husband who hav been cheating their wives it has happened aven at tayeems wen there waz No media stop blamin media for everything

[DreamoOo]

still it wont b tht common then

lol i guess if we get rid of the romantic movies n dere impression on our lives n minds we will never ever blame some one for cheating :p

itz not all abt romantic movies & teenage single young ppl there r husband who hav been cheating their wives it has happened aven at tayeems wen there waz No media stop blamin media for everything

lol , who knows we have to impose dis law for 3 months and see the polls :D

LOL , we are not talking bout just boys/husbands/guys it's juts general I guess isn't it ?( If ur picking on guys den its not fair)
I agree not 100% media but still it has affects on our lives n minds ,...
:odre-ordre:
ok now ur turn to gimme some points wut u think "Why they do" ?

[Pareevash]

lol , who knows we have to impose dis law for 3 months and see the polls :D

LOL yaaaa thtz exactly wat we need to do

LOL , we are not talking bout just boys/husbands/guys it's juts general I guess isn't it ?( If ur picking on guys den its not fair)

na i m not pickin on guyz...afcrz we have hered the stories of wives cheatin on husbandz too

I agree not 100% media but still it has affects on our lives n minds ,...
:odre-ordre:

yaa afcrz it has affects on our lives some of them r very good itz knowledgable depends on how & what u take it frm it

ok now ur turn to gimme some points wut u think "Why they do" ?

hmm LOl i m better with arguin than givin the actual facts but lemme try

WHY THE DO???

coz they r PSYCHO!!!

.sometayeemz they actually care abt you they love you but they r cheatin on u at the same tayeem they dont even mean to hurt you BUt they cant b their selves with u ...probably coz of their personality forexample You are quiet & ur partner iz tht party person most likely tht party person wud cheat on you bcause u r not givin them wat they actually need u take life too seriously & they r tht Immature or jus person who actually doesnt care abt anything but havin fun in life so they cheat to fill their own inner emptineesss..!!

.one of the reason would b the lack of concern about each other may b one of them never wanted to b in this relationship

. wen they feel they r not gettin the deserved amount of attention

.jus for sumkind of revenge may b u rejected them first & wen u realize mayb thtz the girl Or guy u ve been waiting for u went back to him they kinda accepted u only for the reason tht they wanted revenge....

as much as i personaly would love to try again to giv one last chance
i Am against second chances if ur partner has cheated u once they r confident they can do it again....!!

[Nazuk Ladki]

I found this Quote
& i think its Very interesting & True.
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[Pahelvaan]

i think it depends on what kind of cheating it is, for example.
weather it is sexually oriented, or if the object of desire was someone else's company/friendship.

we are all animals, we have sexual desires. wants. fantasies. needs.
sexual cheating should not happen either. but it is not as bad as your partner becoming infatuated with someone else. that is when the real problems start.

if i was to cheat on my partner, then go home and make them feel like the most amazing person in my life
would that make me a bad person?

would it be better if i went home disappointed, sexually, at how my libido is not satisfied? this would have knock on affect on the relationship itself.

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[- Ğangxta Babé -]

Umm, I personally believe that if a person cheats on you they don't love you.
If they did love you, why would they have to cheat? .. they would just want to be with you.. not with someone else.
Cheating is just dumb.. you can just tell the person that you don't wanna be with them anymore.. It might hurt them but it'll be better in the long run.
Guess they don't have the guts to do so.

[Nazuk Ladki]

Pahelvaan I Adore your Comment alot. +++ stars to it if i could.
Esp : would it be better if i went home disappointed,
sexually, at how my libido is not satisfied? this would have knock on affect on the relationship itself.

It made me think!

- Ğangxէa Babé -
I guess you have to be in the cheater's position to actually
understand whats going on.
maybe they do LOVE that person and are just trying to get their attention.
but well Said.

:s1:

[- Ğangxta Babé -]

There's many other ways to get attention.. or just talk to the other person about it.. not cheat on them.
Cheating will only make them dislike you n' not trust you..

[Razii]

Mostly girls claim of being cheated by someone, particularly on net. .I think this thing should be thought before entering into a relationship, esp when u even dont know a person in real life..

[Rania]

hmmmmm