On date??.. (LOVE)

[Humaila]

I've seen many people who say they love somebodey, and in the end they break up.. It does not last forever. Or it does not end up with any kind of marriage(nikkah)..
But Quran says:One should not take them as girlfriends.. holy Quran; - Al-Ma'idah 5:5

A muslim should not be with non-mehram.. Islam protects us from ourselves by segregating men from women who are not directly related (these people are known as mahrham) as specific in the Qur'an. Instead of dating, a Muslim and Muslimah meet in a pre-arranged place (such as a room in the Masjid) with a wali/witness/guardian/escort present in the room. The couple will discuss a marriage contract and ask questions of importance to them regarding marriage. The best person to seek for a spouse is the pious.

According to hadith Ahmad and Al-Tirmidhi 3118, Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab , Tirmidhi transmitted it.

Muhammad(sww) says: "Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third."..

PLEASEEEEEEEE AVOID BEING ALONE WITH NON-MEHRM,
except out of necessity and when unavoidable...

Respect yourself and your body; wait until marriage for sex. More importantly, obey your Lord; wait until marriage for sex.

Don't do like the kaffirs, who date. Do as your Lord commands you. Trust that Allah swt knows what is best for you.

Remember... Allah, subhana watala, sees everything we do!
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May ALLAH(swt) show us the right path of life.. AMIN..

[umair8005]

aaj kl yh bemari pak me b aam ho gai hy......

aameeeen....

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[Humaila]

Yhe bimari haar jagha hai.. Bus PAKISTAN mein bhi hai.. Lekin yhe bimari chupp kar hoti hai.. ASTAGHFIRULLAH..

[sadiapk]

aisi baatien aghar forum me ho .. ya aisi baatein logon ko baatay jhay to kya pata .. zamana aise na rahe jaisa ke hain ..

[AYAZ]

Pakistan mei tou ab yeh baat aam hogai hai. ALLAH hum sub ko ais burai sei bachaye ameen

[Humaila]

Sahi kaha aapney Sadia sisoo.. Key aghar insaan inform karey .. Lekin insaan ko khud bhi sochna chahie na..
Iss martaba jub mein pakistan ghay to.. ALLAH hum sub ko muaf kare.. It was tooo much.. Mujhe hairanagi howi key Pakistan jo key islamic mumalik hai waha aisa horaha hai.. Hum europeen mumalik ko blame kya de?

[sadiapk]

waise . aik baat baataoo .. hum jho log hain jho europ me rehte hain .. ye aghar pak jhay na .. inhe appna pata ho gha ke .. hum muslim hai n hume aise bahaar nikalna chaye .. ya phir aise baat karni chaye .. ya phir . is tarha izat hothy hain humari .. lekin pakistan me .... . pakistan jho ke islamic country hain .... waha rhe kar bhi logon ko .. islam ke bare me kuch pata nahin hotha . sachiii .. ab maien kuch dinon pehle hi aik prograam dekha tha .. jisme bas kuch sawal poooche jha rahe the islam ke bare me ... .. kisi ko kuch pata nahin tha .. koi bhi ... msahi jawab nahin de paya .. muje to bohot hi herani hui hain ... yaha tak ke .. jho uni me jane wale jho bache hain unhe bhi nahin pata tha ... . jho ke pakistan me parhe huwe hain ... .. chalo khair... muje laghta hain ke jho bahaar rehte hain .. who hi sahi samble huwe hain ... apk jhay ghe to .. un ka zehen kharab hhi ho gha ... pak ko I think islamic country hi rehna chaye ..

[Humaila]

U r right.. kuch aise hai pakistan mein jinhey itna ilm nahi hai islam key barey mein..
jahaan thak mene dekha hai to, europe waghera mein rehtey hai onko kaafi ilm hota hai.. LEKIN sub amal nahi kartey.. Jo iss waqt dauur ja raha hai.. Acha nahi hai muslmano key lye.. Jahaan dekho be-hayai hai..
Bus behtaari ki dua karni chahie..

[-|A|-]

Assalam o ALaikum
Howz ya ll ?
Well buhaat he acha tOpic hai app kaa.. i m Agreeddd wid u ..
But jo LOg yea soCHtay hain yea BEMAARI sirf pak kee hai Or paak ko he ilzaam Deyaa ja raha hai GHALLAT hai..
yea abb aaam sy baat huGaee hai DUNIa mai is ko Zindaage GHUZarnay ka ik STYLe bana lyaa gaya hai .. is ko fashIon k tor sy use kya ja raha hai .. .. G/F B/F .. kee haWa na saaab ko barbaad kar rakha huwa hai..!!

ahaan haan mai may be is ka ratIon Zeeyadaa hoo .. per yea jO KUCH hai aya kahan sy ? sab ki RAAYE alaaag hugi mari hai k yea sab INDIAN chennel ki waJa sy huwaa hai .. os mai jo dekhaya jata hai woh hum log buhaat he seriously lay rahaay hain.. abb chahain hum kisi bhe age k hoo sab he os ka RANG ROOP lay rahay hain .. kisi larkI k SATH ik boy lazmi hunay ka conscept bhe INDAIn dramaz he sy milaa hai .. is ko chor os ko pakar lyaa .. may be i m WRONG but eVRy boDy have OPINION ..

THANKS FOR SHAREING
KEEEP SHAREING ..NICE TOpicZ..
STAY BLESSED
FI AMAAN ALLAH
Asad khan

[HarD-RocK]

every body iz right lekin ek baat pocho ap sub say......... Jo discussion chal rahi hey ap mein say kitnay log in cheezo say dor hein ??

[humaa]

nice sharingggg
tum to rehne do hard rock i knw how much u date :P :D

[Hussain]

stranger bro ki baaat se me agree :)

@ nice topic humaila :)

@ good

[Hussain]

nice sharingggg
tum to rehne do hard rock i knw how much u date :P :D

:lol:

u ko to bht hi pata hai na :smileycoupless:

[ridaa]

hmm nice sharing sis...
thxx 4 postingg

[! DAKUUUU!!!!]

Pakis r doing this in the name of modernization .... May ALLAH protect us AMEEN !!!

[Humaila]

Yhe baat sahi hai key hum be-hayai ko.. Modernism kehtey hai.. Humey lagta hai key yhe sub karney se hum modern ho jaynge.. Hum on logon ko backforwd kehtey hai jo ISLAM ko follow karney ki koshsih kartey hai..
lekin who log jo ghalt rastey par honge.. hum onko appreicate kartey hai.. Aur onko parha likha kehtey hai..
ALLAH(swt) humey in cheezon se bachay.. AMIN..

[! DAKUUUU!!!!]

Yaa u r rite sumwhat.... lekin aaj kal reality kuch aur hai jo banda parhezgaar momin hai uski log mu pe bhi izzat karte hain aur us ke peeche bhi usko izzat dete hain lekin jo log ghalat raaste pe hain unki log sirf mu pe izzat karte hain peeche koi bhi unko izzat ki nazar se nhi dekhta yahi hai .... aur ye ziada bura hai :s

[Humaila]

Sahi kaha aapney.. mr.Dakuu!!,,,
Lekin kya yhe sahi hai???.. Mein aapko acha kehti hoo aapkey samney aur jub aap waha na hoo to mein aapki borahii karna shoro ho jao..
Lekin jo waqi mein acha hai hum ossko osskey samney kabhi acha nahi kehtey balkey jub who nahi samney hota to osski tareefein kartey hai.. It's kind of opposite situation..